More So

Today I learned again/remembered  that people don’t really change, unless they really really want to.  Not if I really want them to – that doesn’t actually count.

Which reminds me of something I’ve heard someone say that their mothers alway said: “Be careful how you are, because when you are older you will be more so!”  What a concept.  Although this does contradict my first point, doesn’t it?  if you can be careful then you can change, right?

What do you think?