This is surely the most important Lesson that I have ever learned: Marry Well! Know what you want and what you need. No other choice could have a bigger impact on your life.
Me? I wanted and needed (according to my Grandma Sara, who remembered such things) “Smart, funny and kind” in, as I remember it, no particular order – all being equally important. And look! I got it all!
Score!
Jane's Lessons Learned 